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parental psychological control \u6642\uff0c\u5b78\u8005\u6703\u5340\u5206 guilt induction\u3001love withdrawal\u3001shaming \u7b49\u65b9\u5f0f\uff1b\u4f8b\u5982\u5229\u7528\u5b69\u5b50\u7684\u5167\u759a\u3001\u64a4\u56de\u95dc\u611b\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u900f\u904e\u7f9e\u6065\u611f\u5f71\u97ff\u5176\u884c\u70ba\u3002\u7814\u7a76\u4e5f\u63d0\u9192\u6211\u5011\uff0c\u9019\u4e9b\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u5b8c\u5168\u76f8\u540c\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u904e\u7a0b\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u6587\u5316\u80cc\u666f\u6703\u5f71\u97ff\u4eba\u5011\u5982\u4f55\u7406\u89e3\u5bb6\u5ead\u8cac\u4efb\u548c\u95dc\u4fc2\u7fa9\u52d9\uff08Fung &amp; Lau, 2012; Yu et al., 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<strong>relational aggression\uff08\u95dc\u4fc2\u653b\u64ca\uff09<\/strong> \u7b49\u6982\u5ff5\u7814\u7a76\u9019\u985e\u884c\u70ba\u3002\u76f8\u95dc meta-analysis \u986f\u793a\uff0crelational aggression \/ victimization \u8207\u540c\u5115\u63a5\u7d0d\u3001\u6392\u65a5\u3001\u4eba\u6c23\u4ee5\u53ca\u53cb\u60c5\u7279\u5fb5\u5b58\u5728\u91cd\u8981\u95dc\u4fc2\uff08Casper et al., 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